At what point would your girls spending habits be a deal breaker?

I always thought my ex would get better with finances but no. We were together for 5 years and when I expressed that I wanted her to get her finances in control so we could save up, be a team, and have two disposable incomes, no kids, no debt and live our best life while young... she hit me with the “I don’t know if I believe in this anymore, I don’t need someone telling me how to live my life and if you’re not gonna give me adventure I don’t wanna be with you.” A real slap to the face but hey some people just love using credit cards and don’t care about debt.

I’m 23, make 50k a year, with 2gs in debt... fuck it. I’ll work on myself

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