What post or response stuck with you in AskWomen? [NSFW]

I had a long comment typed up and then my phone died, and tbh between putting pans of snickerdoodles in the oven and chasing my dog away from the table, I don't have it in me to think it up again. Here's what I wanted to say, but much less eloquently:

I think that being a submissive woman who appreciates a traditional hetero relationship is 110% awesome and good and wonderful. If you and your partner are consenting and happy, then I'm happy for you.

My issues with the original comment were:

A) I absolutely can't relate to her and felt it necessary to point out that my experience as a woman who doesn't feel that way is just as valid as hers. Women who aren't submissive, or who are actively dominant, are often dismissed, told we're just confused or "haven't met the right one yet", or completely ignored. That gets really, really old.

B) She took the idea of being traditional and submissive and made it sound like a caricature of itself. She presented herself as a silly child who can't get through life without a man to hold her hand. That's... not really my cup of tea. Judging by many of the comments in this thread, there are other people who feel the same.

A lot of people hold up a comment like hers as some "feminine ideal" and that's a dangerous thing to do. It's an easy thing to go from overtly praising that to actively shaming women who don't conform to that ideal.

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