But more often than not, I'll come here to read things like "this gay trans guy is actually just a delusional straight woman".

And? It's perfectly accurate. A female person will never be a gay man. We refuse to call heterosexual trans-identified women gay because they are not.

Go visit any other gay male related sub on this website and you will find endless pandering to straight women who believe they are gay men. Endless posts celebrating their so-called bravery, championing them when they call out the evil cis gays for being trans exclusionary and too focused on genitals.

This is one of the few places where we can actually call out this drivel for what it is, blatant homophobia. One of the few places where we can explicitly state that a female person can't just identify her way into male homosexuality. And you're upset because we dare to call heterosexual women who believe they are gay men "delusional"? Tough, that's what they are, and entertaining that delusional is the reason we're in this mess in the first place and why this sub exists.