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I'm a 32HH, and while bigger than average my boobs really aren't as big as most people assume from that size. I'm probably comparable to Sofia Vergara's chest size.

But for what it's like; laying on my stomach can be uncomfortable if I don't re-adjust my chest well enough because the tissue kind of bunches or folds slightly causing it to sort of pinch the skin. That's not fun and it's awful having to change positions when I sleep because I always have to fuss around with my boobs so they're in a comfy position too. BUT there are good points! I can balance things I'm carrying on them making it way easier to carry more things than normal should I need to. And they do add a more "mature" vibe to me I guess so I rarely ever have to deal with getting carded at bars and stuff even though I'm only just 21. So that's nice. Clothes shopping is a fucking nightmare though. I can't wear button ups ever unless I get them professionally altered, 80% of the fashionable styles right now look horrendous with big boobs, and I can never ever buy a swimsuit off the rack as mine have to be bra-sized and ordered from overseas.

I don't flaunt them but people always end up noticing them anyway and they've garnered unwanted attention a lot (both negative and positive) that I don't really enjoy since I was probably 12. It's not fun and doesn't feel nice when the first thing someone notices about me is my boobs instead of me. I get looked down more than I'd like in job interviews or more professional settings where people seem to think I'm trashy because clothes fit me differently than someone with a smaller chest. Many times I've been told a top is far too revealing when it's barely showing a hint of cleavage (if any at all) just because of my boobs.

Also, since I see other ladies complaining about their size: If you're wearing the right bra size (most aren't FYI), they usually aren't that big of a deal outside of making clothes shopping a huge pain in the ass. I have no pain or discomfort 9 times out of 10 from mine assuming I wear a bra that supports me well. Those saying that their DDs and DDDs cause them pain should probably consider being properly sized because actual DDs and DDDs are not all that large and shouldn't be that uncomfortable.

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