What is Rape Apology?

I don't even know anymore. The word rape has been twisted to cover such a broad spectrum of things. Noncensensual Sex, drunk sex, regretable sex, coerced sex. It's basically being used now to mean whatever the hell they want it to mean at that moment.

Rape apology to me I guess would be trying to blame the woman for what she wears or something like the guy just couldn't control himself. Now as far as drunk sex I have a completely different attitude on. I believe that if you are dumb enough to get wasted to the point where you wake up the next morning sleeping with a he/she beast then you just made a regrettable life decision and should learn to moderate your drinking. I don't understand this position where you are responsible for your actions when drunk if any thing else happens but if sex happens and you are female, then don't worry you're off the hook.

Now this leads me into a story on a completely different subject that angers me. Basically alcohol angers me because of what it does to people but this one especially. So a few years back there was a major news story in the region where a girl had just turned 21 so like an idiot she decided the best way to spend that birthday is binge drinking. So her and her friends go out and get wasted. To the point where the bar cuts her off but her friends keep buying drinks and sneaking them to her. Ok so as they leave the bar owner gets int he way and says no your gonna wait on a taxi, so the girl says fine but i need to get my phone out of my car. Jumps in her car and hauls ass until she finally plows into another family driving home doing 90 MPH. Kills all of them. So her family decides to sue the bar because even though they cut her off, and even though they tried to keep her from driving home, they were responsible for what happened. As I said it has nothing to do with rape or anything not that sort but I just hate how stupid people get around alcohol and then try to avoid the responsibility of their actions.

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