What do you really get out of dating today? (Question)

Mutual benefit. I enjoy making my partners happy and giving them emotions and experiences others have not or cannot. It makes me feel valuable, special, and powerful.

Dating is worth it to me because I've had unfuckingbelievable experiences dating. As a kid I was girl crazy, but even then I couldn't have imagined how great my dating experiences with women would be.

The validation, the excitement, the passion, the mystery, and the stimulation make it all worth it.

I expect a partner to provide stimulation and effort. I don't have a specific formula. Some women will be more physical, some will be more mental, and some will be more emotional. I expect them to know their respective strengths and maximize them in our relationship. As long as I provide her with right environment to do so, she should pick up the ball and run with it.

My expectations are absolutely realistic.

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