What do you regret finding out?

My two gay ex-roomates, who are boyfriends, slept with our married neighbor after the wife went to bed.

After a night of drinking the wife went to bed and things escalated. Unfortunately for their drunk asses, everything was caught on the doggie cam. The next morning she saw everything. They got a rape kit done and have since filed a restraining order - completely destroying the friendship. Neighbor and wife are in therapy. I don't know many details but I do know that consent is tricky and you should try to sleep with someone who is too drunk to offer consent.

I regret finding out is that my roommates, in their shame, slowly ostracized anyone who knew their secret. Come to think of it it's probably best to focus on better friends anyway!

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