What’s the cruelest thing a partner (or now-ex-partner) has done to you while in a relationship? Could you forgive them and look past it?

We start dating. She tells me she's infertile. We have lots of unprotected sex. She gets pregnant. I man up and I am ready to accept responsibility for my actions. She suggests we get a place and move in together before I start college. We do and shortly after she gets an abortion. Her body, her choice I guess but now we are stuck in lease away from both our families and friends because we moved quite a ways to live near campus. We grow distant over the next few months as she gets more comfortable in the area. She's much more social than I am, so I just let her have fun. She begins constantly accusing me of hiding things in my phone. I let her look whenever she wants and she never finds anything, I don't even have a pass code so she even checks while I sleep. A few months later, on my birthday, she comes home from work and says she doesn't wanna go out to dinner cause she's tired from work. She lays in bed texting someone. Two nights later I wait for her to fall asleep and check her phone. She was Snapchat texting a guy she told me she had a crush on when we first started dating. He messed up was saving some of the messages. They were referring to me as "the rent sitituation" in their conversation. Kicked her ass out a few days later. She moves in with a co-worker. Her and the guy start dating. They just got married last month.

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