What’s something that destroyed your self confidence, and how did you recover?

I had a 3 month relationship with a certain red haired 23 year old who was very thick and had very wide child bearing hips (I was 19) who was basically a Coke head sex slave/plus enforcer for the other druggie girl sex slaves from ages 14-21 for a guy who had a GIANT dick. Like roughly about 9 inches long and much MUCH thicker than average as well. She even was given homework every day to use a bunch of sex toys (incrementally got bigger over time) as often as she could to try to eventually work herself up to bring able to handle the druglord guy's cock.

She said she it took until she was almost 17 before she could take it. Anyways I'm only a little above average is length and girth so as you can probably imagine the sex was not good for her at all. Amazing for me though... Loose pussies are a myth, they stay mostly tight but just have the ability to stretch like crazy then return to their normal size/shape

So how did I recover? After we eventually broke up I had sex with many other woman including experienced ones and was always told I was much better than average so that helped me mostly feel better.

Yes I'm aware this story sounds made up or at least exaggerated, all I can say is that I swear on my life I'm being completely honest.

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