What’s something a man has said/done to you that you excused/didn’t notice during the time but later realised was super creepy?

I worked for a local gaming company, people that I had been friends with and known personally for a few years.

The things the boss said to me were downright awful, but it was like he was constantly picking at me and teasing out answers to see what kind of person I was.

He picked my brain for political questions, told me all sorts of details about his marriage, his wife’s marriage, constantly talked about how men and women can’t naturally be friends, talked about how hot his wife was all the time, how much he wanted to fuck her and how great of an ass she had. Talked about being at war (he was over seas). He told me about a dream he had had about an old high school girlfriend and that he had sex with her, and he made sure to underline she was still a high schooler (he was like 40ish, I was 20).

Every day I’d nervously come home from work and recount our conversations to my boyfriend. I was always a little bit upset and on edge, but this job was an amazing opportunity and I wanted to be a cool girl.

I ended up leaving after he called me a bitch and screamed at me (yes, really). I have evidence of him admitting to everything. I’ve thought about suing him, but honestly he’s a little off and I don’t want to piss him off. I also care about the other person that worked at this company, even though he was a coward that never stood up for me or said ANYTHING to me. We’re not friends anymore (if we ever really were). He stood by and watched it all happen - I guess he spoke to the owner alone behind the scenes and the owner said something amounting to “she’s cool with it.”

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