What’s something that some people do to try to be nice but it actually infuriates you ?

I’m in a wheelchair and people try to do everything for me, especially push my chair. So many come up to me and ask and I say no and they do it anyway. I get particularly angry when they don’t have masks or have a cigarette in their mouth. I’m severely asthmatic. Recently a neighbour offered to put my garbage in the dumpster I declined her offer because of the cigarette and no mask. She came up took it from me. I was trying to be courteous and said I’m sorry it’s heavy. As I said it she blew cigarette in my face and instantly my lungs started to shut down. Before I could say thank you she rudely said you’re welcome. Absolute azhat.

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