What’s a time when a couple small things built up and you just utterly lost it?

Yesterday with my boyfriend.

I recently had a traumatic medical emergency, which caused me a lot of pain (4 days prior) my shoulders were still partially out of socket.

He asked me to help him move

And then we were at his parents house, the first time I left my house while recovering, couldn’t even work. He said “come over behind here” (back story, he asks me for a massage, every day. Every day we see each other, I mayyybe get one on occasion)

I said “is that to give you a massage?” And he looked at me like yes it is

I said “ask me that again and I’ll punch you in the face”

I’m typically very loving and a push over, and have never said anything like that before. I just couldn’t believe he would ask me that when he knew how much pain I was in, and having just gotten out of the hospital 3 days prior, cause I was there overnight.

After that I guess he realized how wrong that was of him to ask, and became understanding and helpful for the rest of the night

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