Holy shit do you really think this would happen?! That two people could be in a relationship for long enough to get married without ones realising the other is trans? Genuine question. Also, why would this excite anyone? Do you think trans people get off on the idea of this? If so, you should probably get over whatever strange belief system has got ahold of you and go out and talk to a more diverse bunch of people. It'd do you a world of good and get rid of some of that fear.

For what it's worth, if this really could happen this far into a relationship I think there has been some great dishonesty going on but there are probably way bigger issues at the heart of their relationship.

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