What’s your generic/safe response when a TBM asks why you left the church?

I hate this… so hard to tell people the reason I left is because I and a few other RM’s got raped by someone impersonating a Med Student. Then I have to bring up the fact the church knew about it and kept it quite and us RMs finally found out and had to go to law enforcement and get this serial rapist off the streets. All while his bishop testified in court that he was a good man and was going to the temple regularly the entire year after his confession and initial charges were filed and court sessions were going on.

Anyways.. ya I hate it because then I have to admit that I was a victim and then I hate tearing down what they believe in because I remember when I was a TBM and remembered how it felt when people would tear into your beliefs.

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