Thanks for the info. Now that I know there are people look g specifically for trans guys on there I’m going to make a profile. Lol

In all seriousness, if I were to go on grinder it would be for sex. I don’t mind a bit of fetishizing. I’m very clear about my boundaries and in how to refer to my body. If they can’t respect that then they can F-off. I personally identify as a man and a transman. If they find my trans body sexy or interesting but aren’t jerks about it, that’s fine. If I were looking for a date, that would be different.

I’m also more inclined to sleep with women who engage in a bit of fetishizing than men who are. In my experience, many men on these apps come off ok at first then get weird, gross or just show their true ignorance about trans people. I’m into both men and women sexually but I’ve grown to become more cautious with men.