What is safe to do after oral surgery?

Recently, I got two impacted wisdom teeth surgically removed from the top and two molars removed on the top as well. I was unconscious. I got it done on the 24th of this month and tomorrow will be a week from then. The stitches have mostly dissolved and I have no pain and taste no blood at all. I am on antibiotics. But I came to you guys on Reddit to ask a few things. My boyfriend and I’s one year anniversary is next Wednesday but we plan on seeing each other that weekend which makes it 2 weeks since surgery. I prepare on celebrating. So here’s the questions,

1) When would be the appropriate time to drink alcohol and be around cigarette smoke? (I don’t smoke, my boyfriend does.)

2) When would be the appropriate time to finally kiss on the mouth.. You know what I mean

Oh this one is the last and most embarrassing.

3) When would it be appropriate to do oral sexual activities? I know TMI but would I have to spit afterwards?

Btw I have prescribed antiseptic wash to rinse with.

TLDR CAN I DRINK OR DO OTHER ORAL ACTIVITIES 2 WEEKS AFTER WISDOM TEETH SURGERY

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