Nicest : my older sister, who is in the throws of a second nasty and bitter divorce (not her choice, she's devastated) told me she knows we'll have the greatest life together. That she can't imagine a better partner for me than my fiancé.

That's awesome coming from someone who can't go into her old house without destroying a table or couch with a hammer. I've been prepared to absorb and abstract any Marriage is Meaningless comments from her - she's in a bad place - but she just didn't. That's why she's my matron (ugh I hate that term.) of honor.

Meanest: my FH's older brother asked him point blank what he spent on my ring.