What secret do you wish you could get off your chest right now?

Eh, this shit really has my brain on the fritz honestly. My thing is, I am okay with things not lining up. I, just like many people I'm sure, have been through shit. Shit that has shown me how I can't really be upset that I have no control over certain things. I just assume, particularly in this situation, that the other side isn't as into it or maybe she was being cordial and assuming I was looking for a friend and nothing more. Going off of all that.. all I can really concentrate on is how I'd just like to know. Not demanding from the other side, I don't expect anything like that. I don't expect people to have their feelings and lives sorted out any more than I do my own, but communication is key.

Basically, I prefer to know as soon as humanly possible if the chick in a given scenario is interested. Years back I was messing around with this chick for a short period of time, eventually to have her come crying to me one day about how sorry she was. She wasn't into it and wanted some other guy, she was so sorry, all that good stuff. I actually technically found out before she even told me and she actively avoided me for a bit in response. Anyway, she came to me with all that and I wasn't upset in the slightest. I told her that knowing is all I want from anyone in a situation like that.

I don't want pity. I don't want you to avoid me because you can't bring yourself to be honest with me. I don't want to sit around and wonder about whether you are into me or not. I want you to tell me, flat out. Either way. Every time. If that's too much to ask I really don't even know anymore..

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