No trolling, I want honest replies from other people who were in a similar situation. There's this girl I've known and been friends with for a number of years, she was in a relationship for quite a few years with him before she broke it up. We remained friends despite her bf. When I asked why she broke up with him she said, "The love sorta just dried out". Interestingly enough around that same time she began to be friends with this party girl. The typical drunk, goes out to bars, dresses skanky type which surprised me because she normally doesn't go out and get drunk. It's like her friend is a bad influence on her. We text/snapchat each other but when I wanted to Skype with her, she took forever to respond to my message saying that she didn't have her laptop with her which I think was just an excuse cause shes in her dorm room the whole week. While at the same time via her snapchat story she's all dressed up with her friend like shes about to go out. When it came to skyping her, a simple yes or no response could have sufficed. She sometimes likes to play games like she'll bail out on a meet up or whatever. To me it seems like she doesn't know what she wants. She broke up her relationship but now she sorta regrets it because "she doesn't have anyone to reveal herself onto". She says she's miserable at her school but it doesn't seem like it the way that she goes out and parties all the time. We remained friends for so long because I feel we have a lot in common and did go out a few years ago.I didn't want to rush into a relationship or anything; I just wanted to talk to her better as a friend. I still have feelings for her which is why it's hard to just cut ties. I don't have a lot of "girl" friends and ones that I have this same connection with anyway. Should I continue to pursue her? Should I continue to be her friend? Maybe I'm just overreacting, I don't know. :(