what should i say to someone who thinks heaven is a playground where you can do whatever you want and make stuff appear out of nowhere?

First of all, there is already verse in Quran that mentioned Muslim we see Allah so why do you need a hadeeth for? You have to prioritize Quran then hadeeth not the other way round as hadeeth can be subjected to corruption from the ppl who delivered it or interpreted.

Secondly Bukhari is the second correct book after Quran so a hadeeth that was left out by bukhari isn’t your best argument since that jumat market hadeeth wasn’t mentioned at all in it (I have to add you we also be critical to bukhari’s ahadeeth because some of them don’t align with our Quran, also he’s a human and human aren’t perfect and can do many mistakes.

Thirdly, the hadeeth never specified a gender, in arabic language the muthakar form of verb are meant for both gender, that’s why you see in standard Arabic songs (Kadim Al sahir) sings for women in a male verb. Also in the holy Quran all the orders verses is in muthakar form cuz in original Arabic language that form was actually used for both gender, so if we come to this hadeeth it meant for both gender (that if we assume the hadeeth is sahih) so I don’t know what makes you thing you are excluded, no where in the Hadith mentioned excluding women.

Jealousy won’t be present for both males and women, women desire to be part of harem is patriarchal propaganda it’s literally their fantasies they wish we think like them. Allah created Adam and Eve. One man and one women this the All asl. If women desired to be harem, then Allah wouldn’t create jealousy in them, the reason you are repulsed by sharing and want exclusivity is because Allah made you like that, the same reason Allah created male with Also jealousy. So please don’t let these male made lies gaslight you and make question your desire and humanity. They are trying to shake you and make think that you are created to follow male and be sex doll and part of harem which is truly unislamic and against our deen.

The hoor cursing women is a weak hadeeth that well known that is weak in the hadeeth community. Do you see all these things you stated serves the patriarchal agenda?

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