Recently a friend asked me this question, she said that she had a lot of misogyny to unlearn. I told her that we all do, it's okay and different for everyone. I think you are in an exciting time, you get to decide/choose what kind of women you want to be.

There's no wrong way. Maybe join some women communities that share fashion, booka and stuff. Personally, I love Tumblr and Etsy. It's okay, whatever you choose. You can always change your style later. There are subs like r/abrathatfits r/witchesvspatriarchy

Also, do be careful of creeps. If you're alone try to deescalate and find a safe space. Maybe enroll in self defense classes. Another thing to look out for, a lot of men will think you're interested in them if you are the tiniest bit nice. Once I asked a man what he was doing for Halloween and he thought I was asking him out. Oh brother.