3. What trait (physical or personality) are you most insecure about that you believ...

What trait (physical or personality) are you most insecure about that you believe would be a problem in the dating field or a relationship?

I am 39 and I was varying levels of overweight to obese for my whole life up until two years ago when I got my shit together and lost all the excess weight. I'm now a healthy size and I look great in clothes, but decades of being overweight has wreaked havoc on my body and unfortunately that's not something it can bounce back from. I have loose skin all over the place but most noticeably on my thighs, stomach and arms, my poor boobs are deflated and I jiggle practically everywhere. I for sure feel a lot better about my body now and I'm more confident than when I was fat, but those insecurities really crop up when my clothes come off. I'm always worried that men I meet will be fooled by my clothes and then when they come off he's thinking "holy shit, false advertising!"

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