I would never find out if some other guy had a better personality because I don't talk to the guys I fuck in any meaningful way. I make it extremely clear from the start that I have no interest in anything beyond sex. I never even know the last names of the guys, let alone getting to know their personalities. As for the money, it's been my experience that people with loads of money tend to be arrogant pricks and have no understanding of how to properly connect with middle class people, such as myself. It ruins their personality, hence no love on my part.

Obviously, no one can predict or control their love. I don't see what that has to do with having an open relationship though, since sex and love are two very different things.

The thing with "meeting someone better" is that you have to be in the mindset for it. If you are completely dedicated to and happy with your partner and have no interest in being with everyone else, you could meet someone who would be your ideal match in every way, but if you don't want anyone else, then it doesn't matter. I was in a not so great relationship with my first boyfriend, but the thought of leaving him for someone else never crossed my mind. He was the one who broke up with me in the end, not the other way around. I'm sure that in the 2 years we dated, I must have met a dozen other better guys, but it didn't even register in my brain because I was focused on one person.

As for earnings and assets, he's actually the one "marrying up" financially. I will be entering the marriage with much, much more money than him and my expected future earnings are greater than his due to the line of work I'm in. I wouldn't be cashing in on anything by taking half his assets in the case of a divorce. He would though. Also not sure what this has to do with an open relationship...

I don't need support for my relationship because it works well for us and we have no complaints. Not to mention 2x is a horror show.

How am I timebomb, exactly?