Do you do those things? The "good cause" things? I donate to almost any good cause I come across and my wife does volunteer work pretty often, for what it's worth. Just curious if you do the same.

My little brother died after decades of terrible sickness that I don't even want to imagine, now that it's over. I was 33 years old and my wife and I were pulling in almost a quarter million a year, and I didn't have much nice to wear. I was grief-stricken and I bought a couple of Brooks Brothers shirts and a Citizen watch at a fucking outlet center, so that I could look like I gave a shit about my little brother at his wake and at his funeral. It was like $500 all together, is that okay?