When I asked him to slow down re: sex he ended the date and then texted me the next day telling me how “fucked in the head”, crazy, and how much of an “asshole” I was.

I’ve struggled with my mental health (anxiety and ADHD) and was sexually abused as a child, both of which I told him about previously.

He also then told his sizable online platform about this because it was a “fucked up situation that made for great comedy”. But, as he made sure to tell me, he left out my name. So. Classy guy.

He threatened to scream at me if I didn’t “go the fuck away” (I was raised in a verbally abusive home, and I had also previously told him that being yelled at/called names was a huge trigger for me).

It wasn’t as much of a turn-off as it was traumatizing. We had been friends for a while before that. That was the most I’ve been hurt by anyone that I trusted, ever (as an adult). I thought I knew him better. Guess not.