I've been married longer than you. I see the reddit crowd has decided to unload their downvotes on me. I don't ask for much. I handle all the bills. I work. I do all the lawn work. Most of the house work. She is gone on business a lot and I'm not getting any now. When she's back and I'm still not getting any I am way not happy.

Money. Sex. Having children. 3 things that will end a marriage. I love her but I'm not sure she feels the same anymore. She's gone enough that I'm like welp she's back and I'm not noticing much change in my routine. I'd just like to get laid more often. You can go read the dead bedrooms stuff but I mean if I go 2 to 3 months and she can't summon the will to either find me more attractive or be intimate with me or whatever the issue is it's just not going to work anymore.

This is a two way street here reddit.