Everyone else in this comment section is missing the point. At the end of the day some girls just have shitty conversational skills and a boring personality. You can fuck these girls but they are not relationship material. Going out with a girl who is fun to hang out with is like a whole different universe of dating. It shouldn't matter what activities you do or where you are, because just the talking will should give joy to both people.

I like to think of it in like a points system. 1-10 for social skills. If two people are a 5, they can meet in the middle and have a good conversation. If someone is only a 3, they require the other people to have a skill level of 7 to make up for the difference. Me personally, I am a 9. I can talk to almost anyone and make it fun for them. If I can't have a good conversation with a person, I know that they must be BELOW a 1 in social skills, meaning they probably aren't worth hanging out with in the first place! I know some people who are perfect 10s, such as my sister who can have a lively conversation with even the most awkward, insufferable people you could possibly imagine. But at the point, it's like, why bother?