3. What is the worst reason to breakup with someone?

What is the worst reason to breakup with someone?

Last night I had an argument with my boyfriend about some political video I was watching. He'd asked me what I'm watching and I tried to explain the back story and he immediately furrows and asks for the direct source for back story and then proceeded to tell me how it's a load of shit. What I was trying to say before he jumped into all this is that the video I'm watching was of Obama refuting the story, so I never claimed I believed the story in the first place I was just reporting... And this fight just blew up and I said I felt very uncomfortable and didn't want to talk about it and he egged me on like "what you don't wanna talk about it cos you know you're wrong?" And I said I'm not wrong because I don't even believe the fucking story but he always has to push everything to a point where I get so flustered and feel so bad about myself, and if I try to walk away he'll taunt me like that, and I just broke down crying saying I feel like he just thinks he's better than me and always has to remind me. I lost my job a month ago too so I'm particularly insecure. We play video games, he has to be competitive instead of being a team, and has to taunt me if I don't want to play competitively. He's the one to withhold sex from me and if I don't want sex and he does, guess what we do. If he wants a blowjob and I say no he whimpers and flaps his dick at me until I do it. Then if we get into any argument where I'm driven by feelings of inferiority he says it's because I can never handle being wrong. And I feel like he paints me as this bitch manipulative villain for wanting him to take it easy on me when I'm telling him I'm uncomfortable and don't want to do this or talk about that and he says it's like I can't handle ever losing or being wrong and I'm like I can't OK? Not when you have to egg me on and remind me every day. I just can't. After my breakdown I went to bed way earlier than normal and I didn't speak to him in the morning and I'm still trying to figure out how to process this realization. I love him and I know he loves me but I just don't think he sees me as a person with actual feelings, he always seems to think I have some motive to control him and it's his duty to show me that he's in charge, even if it means I have a mental breakdown in front of him, even when I'm at my most vulnerable and telling him directly to stop because it's making me feel like shit. Really don't know what to do. Don't want to break up, just want him to be nice to me. Don't know how to talk to him again about it when he ended it last night saying to calm down and it's alright and he loves me but I don't think that means his behavior will stop. For now I'm just waiting to see if he'll do anything nice to me or if he's going to yell at me for not cheering up by the time he comes home later. Is that testing him unfairly like a 15 year old as some redditors said? What the fuck else can I do? Pick a fight? Break up? I'm trying to give him the chance to show me he cares after last night, and not be rash, but I can't decide if I'm being emotionally abused or if I'm just a pathetic fucking cunt.

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