I fell for a guy in high school who was two grades ahead of me. He had a girlfriend at the time and was also talking to a girl I was friends with so I stopped dealing with him. About 6 years after that, he saw a buddy of mine at his job and asked about me so I did the proper thing and slid in his DMs. We decided to sleep with each other for a while but he was adamant about not wanting a relationship. All the while he'd tell me how much he adored me and that I was giving him new outlooks on life. I remember he told me he "cheated" on me the day before my birthday. Soon after I realized I was pregnant. He said he didn't want a child right now and he'd pay for half the termination. Never in my life did I ever want to do that but I was just going into my junior year at a new college and I knew I was not ready either. I graduated from a two year and he came to the family dinner.

So I did it. He came with me and was very supportive.

Literally a week later, my Grammy invited him over for dinner and I was still raw from the experience. While we are he told me that he really liked me and could see a future with me, but when I was driving him home he said verbatim "Youre an amazing girl and I'd be stupid not to want to be with you, but I know I still want to have other women in my bed". I was devastated! Wholeheartedly crushed. So I called him when I got home and told him that it was fine and that I understood.I met my now boyfriend of two years a week later on PS4 through mutual friends. The other guy would hit me up and even came over once. He TD me he was sorry and that he loved me and he took me for granted. I told him I would never go back to him. Now, we don't even talk.