What was your biggest 180 degree turn in how you felt about someone, and what changed your view?

This actually happened pretty recently: a friend of almost ten years. A lot of little toxic stuff was starting to add up, but the biggest thing was when she went and got matching tattoos with a girl she constantly shit talks. Like, bad. I was already questioning our friendship but that was a big ole slap in the face and made me wonder what all she’s said about me. Also made me realize how a lot of stuff doesn’t add up which is super fishy.

We haven’t talked in a few weeks but the other day she randomly messaged me after I recently dyed my hair and overall just changed my appearance to how I actually want to dress, but was always too shy to do so. It was purely to tell me “in a few years you’ll look back at these pics and think you were fucking stupid”

Yeah, no going back from that

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