3. What was your biggest sexual regret?

What was your biggest sexual regret?

So far yea. We definitely didn't talk about it enough beforehand. You're about to get the long version bc well, I don't like being misunderstood.

We'd had sex with another couple before, and that time I was really into the other husband, and as it was going down we had a lot of good discussion about how everyone was feeling etc etc.

This particular scenario was a fucking drunk mess. I should preface that my husband and I had discussed the possibility of having sex with them bc a couple weeks prior the other wife found out we were non-monogamous and expressed some interest, but we hadn't really discussed anything with her, and nothing with her husband.

So fast forward back to the drunk mess. Halfway through the night I thought, yea okay, I could probably have sex with this person. But I didn't think it was going to be that night. SO it's 2am after a long night of alcohol consumption and he starts rubbing up on me and I'm immediately not fucking interested. Like oh god. Ugh ick no. But I'm not too concerned bc there's other people around still (house party) and no one had discussed having sex together so I thought, this is not on the table tonight.

Welllll other husband wanted to put this on the table tonight. So he kicked the other people out and then came onto me waaay too strong. And I'm like. Oh fuck time to go. But no by that time my husband is already balls deep in his wife. Sigh.

My husband would've absolutely understood and supported me if I said no, I wanted to leave. But I have a guy that I'm sleeping with regularly on the side, and my husband doesn't have anyone else, and I really wanted him to be able to enjoy all the opportunities he gets in our open marriage. So I let this dude have sex with me and it totally fucking sucked.

But nobody (well except for that dude) really pressured me into. I feel like it might have been obvious to a sober person that I was not that interested, but whatever. I don't blame my husband at all, if anything it's my own fault for not speaking up.

What's really uncomfortable is we're friends with these people and I've been avoiding them ever since.

Well wow. So that's way more than what you asked about. Clearly I needed to get some of that off my chest.

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