What, in your opinion, is the most important thing in a relationship?

I think it's possible. Im not that physically attracted to this specific guy. I don't find him ugly though and I've been in love with him for over 4 years now lol.
I have never clicked that well with any other human, like I do with this guy. I'll be very surprised if I find this in any other person. Its insane to me how it's mutual too. But this was also about 8 years in the making.

My most recent ex is very attractive, it a bad relationship but I kept finding myself wanting the other guy. I craved that connection, but it wasn't there and we were together 2 years. I kept waiting it out until I just couldn't do it anymore. I would choose the not so attractive guy over anyone else. Hands down.

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