What is your perception of yourself vs. other plus size women?

i wear size 16/18, and, when I look into a mirror, I feel like a huge fat cow. Especially, if this is a big wide mirror (I have quite narrow mirror at home). It was a shock when I stayed at apartment with huge mirrors around - that time I realized how huge I am). At the same time, when I want to make some nice photo, I know how to pose, and my husband, who usually takes a pictures, knows how to take them, so I think that in my instagram I may seem a bit slimmer than I actually am.

When I see other plus size ladies, even if they are bigger than me, I think they look beautiful. I even like how they belly looks (I hate mine), I think that fat arms are ok (I hate mine) and so on. I love plus size full body pictures.

But, one thing I definitely hate is when Plus size girl is only posting selfies and puts a tons of make-up on - it looks very cute, but I think this is a bit unfair?

/r/PlusSize Thread