What's an absolute turn off about your own personality that you're aware of but can't help?

I can't help but stick to what I believe in and stay true. While that sounds fine, it is really something I wish could be a bit different. For a recent example, one of my roommates has been not true to her words and has really upset the other roommate. The one roommate is still doing said shitty thing, annoying her bf with it as well, but the other roommate is now acting fine with it and acting like her bestie (when in reality, when she talks to me all she does is complain about it), while here I am outwardly distancing myself. We tried talking it through but it got nowhere because she kept diverting. I really wish I could just get over it but it has been bothering me for so long now.

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