What's an absolute turn off about your own personality that you're aware of but can't help?

Honestly, I’m super introverted. I try to make plans to hang out with people, to call people, pretty much anything social...but then the anxiety gets to me. I ditch because I feel too nervous to go, I don’t call because I’m too awkward on phone calls and have little to say, and overall it’s just difficult for me to go out on my own initiative and hang out with people.

The worst times are the holidays. Today is Halloween and I already feel terrible because I just ended up not going to a family members Halloween party.

When I’m in school though, I’m super friendly and reach out to others almost all the time. It’s super backwards and I’m not sure why.

/r/AskReddit Thread