Oh ok, I get what your saying.....Yes, An open marriage Male is Much less desirable than a cheating married Male!!!!!
So yes, I was probably not telling most of the women i hooked up with that my wife knew, I know what your saying women are weird, they seem to get off knowing they are stealing a married Man than one that has permission. Its not to say women in same open marriages dont mind, if you want more options, women love knowing they are sexy enough to make a man cheat.
Women are such weird animals, we have all the MeToo movement but yet they want to be pursued, even get off on it behind closed doors. In the Open they want respect.....Sorry ladies, cant have it both ways!!!!