whats so good about the community?

i feel like alot of things work that way, like "first in, first out" type of way.

like if you buy a jug of milk today and then buy a new jug in 3 days, it makes sense to drink from the older jug first because it will go bad sooner. you shouldnt drink from the new one until the old one is empty

or if you have a baby, you have to raise it though all the years of life. like year 1 you teach it how to walk, year 2 teach it how to talk, year 3 go to pre school or something..... all the way to like 16 where you teach them how to drive. if you have a second baby inbetween all this, you cant just forget about the first one. you have to continue to raise and teach it. it was there first

shouldnt it work the same way with guilds in this game? maybe not in regards to making friends, but at least the dungeon run. if you promise me a dungeon run in the first week and then invite someone else to the guild after me, you cant give them their dungeon run before mine. thats just not fair.

during the first week literally nobody was on. i joined on like christmas eve and right after i got invited, the leader said they were going on vacation so they werent on and nobody else was on for a few weeks. i was completely alone the whole time. and then once people started logging on again, its like i wasnt even there. nobody ever brought up the dungeon run or even talked to me. i was invisible. like did they mean its only valid for the first 7 days? and after a week its no longer promised?

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