What's the last straw that made you go, "yep, that person is definitely crazy"?

Dated this girl in high school. We were each other’s first serious relationship and lost our virginities to each other (which was a massive thing due to our religion). After a year together I wasn’t feeling it anymore so I decided to break it off. The day I did she drove over to my house and sat in the front yard bawling for 3-4 hours. I tried to calm her down and get her to leave but she was hysterical. So, being an idiot 18 year old, I gave up, went inside, and locked the door so she couldn’t come running in after me.

She ran up to the door and started screaming and banging on it. It seemed like she was trying to break the door down. I went back out and tried to calm her down again but she was rolling around in the yard and crying. So I picked her up and carried her to her car, opened the door, and put her inside. Then I sat there for another hour telling her to just go home and we could talk about it later.

She was a year older and in her first year of community college, so she had short school days. So every day for the next two weeks she came over to my and waited for me to get back from school. I would see her car outside my house so I would just go to a friends house and stay there until she left (sorry you had to deal with her, mom).

After those two weeks, I was home alone taking a shower. Suddenly I hear her voice and look over the shower curtain and she’s just standing there telling me that I’m not allowed to date anybody else because we’re just on a break and we’re getting back together. I told her to get out and after I got dressed I kicked her out and told her to leave me alone because we were over. She left crying again.

A few days later she texts me 50+ times saying she took pregnancy tests and they were all positive and that I had to be with her for our child. She had claimed to be pregnant before so I just told her that if she really was pregnant I would take care of my child but that I wasn’t getting back together with her. She later admitted that she wasn’t pregnant and had gotten fake pregnancy tests.

All in all, a great first breakup!

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