My last relationship was a total clusterfuck of psycho breakup reactions on both sides. We were on/off for 3 years and it was just the most ridiculous, unhealthy cycle. I've probably done almost everything stereotypically psycho thing you can do post-breakup, or had it done to me. In no particular order:
....sadly, there's probably more that I've forgotten. We broke up for good almost two years ago. Life is much happier and more stable these days.