What's one thing people would never know about you just by looking at you?

You're definitely not alone in this. Women in general are turned on by massive strength and power in a partner. Sometimes that translates into getting off on rough stuff in the bedroom. It's the primal instinct of the female wanting to have the strongest babies with the strongest male in the group. Over millions of years, the female sex drive became linked up with the adrenal glands. So if you scare the shit out of some women, they feel strangely turned on, and they don't know why.

For some women, this reaction is scary or even offensive. "Submissive to a man!? Fuck that!!!" You've embraced it and indulged in it, getting off on a deeper level than they've ever dreamed of. The depth of trust you have to have for somebody before you can play like this is incredible. And that fulfills an emotional need, too.

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