3. What's the shittiest thing someone has ever done to you?

What's the shittiest thing someone has ever done to you?

TL;DR - Best friend's cousin proceeded to accuse me of rape to all my friends and family. Been severely depressed since. Lost all friends.

I was going through a dark phase in my life around July 2014. Was diagnosed with depression and had no motivation for college or working in retail part time.

My best friend had a cousin who had a lot of mental difficulties and every now and again, she'd call me saying she was feeling suicidal and needed me/best friend to travel down to see her.

Me being the one who made the effort, I decided to see her at least twice a week trying to help her which cost me a shit ton of money for train travel. We ended up hooking up as she would make a move on me for comfort and I just decided "why not".

We decided to keep it secret from best friend as we didn't want anyone getting involved. Throughout the next month, I felt even more depressed as I was helping others and just burning myself out until it came to the point where I was mentally exhausted. I decided that we should stay friends and she 'agreed'.

Over the next few months, she used to send death threats/insults to my new girlfriend and that resulted in her dumping me for someone else. Me and best friend decided that we should cut ties with her and we did.

Come November 2014, I ended up having a nervous breakdown over everything and was diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder and severe depression. Placed on meds. Ended up trying to take my life which put a massive strain on relationships with partners/friends/family/best friend. The Cousin decided to creep back into our lives and pretend nothing happened. My best friend accepted her back as family blood, yet I decided to say no because she made me miserable. I ended up in hospital that weekend as I decided to slash my wrists and OD on strong drugs.

Over the next few months, I was feeling positive and trying to get my life back on track. But on my birthday in January 2015, she proceeded to tell everyone on Facebook/AskFm/Twitter/IMessage that I had sexually abused her/raped her and that she's been trying to kil herself thanks to me.

With this, I contacted the police and supplied evidence of the whole relationship using texts/screenshots. She was given a warning that harassment/false statements shouldn't be made and that she'll be given a criminal record if anything was heard again. But the damage was already done. Half my family decided to not contact me, all my friends online started to send threats/insults and my best friend decided to stick with her cousin and tell me that "I'm toxic and no one deserves to be my friend"

Fast forward to today, I have a lovely job. Been into psychiatrict wards. Although I failed college and don't have any energy to go back, I've got an amazing girlfriend who helps with my mental health. I've got a few friends but they're awesome. My mum is still supporting me. But at times, I do feel quite down and lonely. I still struggle with my mental health and feel that taking my life is the only way out, but hopefully that'll never happen.

TL;DR - Best friend's cousin proceeded to accuse me of rape to all my friends and family on my birthday. Been severely depressed since and attempted suicide. Lost all motivation/care.

Edit: I'm in work and typing this up very fast so I do apologise if any misspelling/confusing information and I'll update it when I get home if any errors.

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