The two times I was raped, which is an idea that's foreign because of how I grew up, I was absolutely wasted. Like couldn't walk drunk.

I've told people these stories before and never has anyone stop and said "sounds like you got raped". It's always chalked up to drunken sex.

In most people's eyes, I'm a drama queen or a pussy but never a victim. Hell, my mom even pulled this shit on me.

One night we went this Greek restaurant for a wine tasting party. I was my parents DD and was 16 at the time. They had this belly dancer dancing with the various male guest and everyone was having fun. Then she asked me if I wanted to dance. I wasn't comfortable with it and declined. My mom kept hounding me to dance with this half naked woman in front of both my parents, because that's totally normal. She didn't stop until I got fucking angry and announced to the whole restaurant that I had been molested and wasn't going to dance with this woman under any circumstances. That's the night she blamed me for not telling her or making her understand that I was being molested. I was abused for 3 fucking years by her best friend's daughter. They were a religious family and her husband was preacher so no way would evil be in their home.