What's the strangest date you've ever been on?

met a woman online, I think it was myspace, we hit it off for a while, took her out for the first time to a local dive, for a bite to eat, to get to know her, pretty girl, but something was off with the way she was looking around (like hannah murray /cassie from skins). I'm hard of hearing so I'm already awkward socially as it is but i'm doing my best to keep the conversations going, we hit up a show and I drop her off at home didn't move in for a kiss or nothing kept it slow.

she texts me first (I played that 3 day rule or whatever it is) how she had a great time and wants to hang again. didn't think much of it (still had the red flag I mentioned earlier, but I was 19/20 i wasn't going to be picky now), probably should've tho.

new years eve comes around my friends always throw a big ass party with their friends so basically its a get together with 30+ people, I invited her to this to see how she interacts with some of my (former) friends since i don't trust any of them, they take the first advantage to steal your girl and loyalty was a big one for me.

picked her up, instead of where i dropped her off, she asks me to pick her up at the corner, okay, probably didnt' tell her parents we were going out, no reason for this she was 20 a year older than me.

we go to the party I break the ice, other girls start hitting on me because of this new girl i had around, turned down a early chance at a hookup possibly 3some because i told the girls I'm gonna try and see how this one works out, they get so upset whatever, we have drinks i partake in the green, we all start to hit it off and have a blast.

go to the party, she disappears off the bat, comes back 20 minutes later, i'm like okay.... mingle with my friends while keeping her included. night goes on, next thing I know she disappears again, and i'm like wtf, someone comes up to me and tells me how the sleazy guys were trying to mack on her in private all night and they took off together so i walked around the house, walked into a room, she's in the middle of a gangbang with 3 other guys, one who I know is full blown gay and hes a freak like that. I looked around go uh-huh that'll happen, closed the door and went back to the party, girls from earlier that i blew off were already off the grid, called my cousin to pick me up we hit up the bars and finished up the holiday in style

it was super weird, the gay guy, I still talk to tells me what happens she didnt drink no drugs she just approached them took them into the room and went to town, i'm not even mad, pretty impressed, she didn't give any indications of being like that. but the other guys, after one strike I definitely don't talk to anymore.

funny thing is I did the same thing with my fiance now, brought her out with another group of friends for new years, another house party, same ppl showed up, she comes back and tells me how the same guy who did this before with the other girl tried to grab her into a room before she kicked him in the nuts and socked him, looked at him coming into the room so embarrassed he gets tossed out of the house for being a pedo and no one talks to him anymore.

yeah weird people we hang with.

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