when my dad abused me for 19 years and threatened me, called me vicious names, backed me against walls, bad mouthed my mother, stalked me, didn't allow me to have friends, watched everything I did, screamed at me every single day, and after I left he blamed me and my mom and sees himself as the victim. I've blocked 2 of his numbers and he keeps getting new numbers and fake texting apps so he's impossible to block and it's been well over a year and he still texts long paragraphs saying "I vouched for you on X, Y, Z" and they're blatant lies. for one example I dyed my hair when I was 16 and he was so violently against it my mom waited til he was out of town for the week to schedule the appt, when he got back he refused to speak to me and pretended I didn't exist for a week. now he's like "I'M the one who convinced your mother" lmao god I hate him