I don't know if I've ever been in a relationship with a guy who was ever 100% straight. In my two most significant relationships they've identified as bisexual, and even the more casual ones have referenced being bi-curious at least.

I just attract the queer dudes, lol, IDK why. I am also apparently attracted to the queer dudes.

It's to the point now where I don't know if I could have a relationship with a 100% straight guy. I get on with queer guys much better. They tend to be more receptive to me being a feminist, for starters, and also, way better in bed (i.e. sex doesn't always have to be PIV).

That said, my asshole ex, who IDed as bi when I met him then became more conservative and declared that his previous bi desires stemmed from "daddy issues" and he wasn't really did cheat on me in really unsafe ways with guys. Despite being queer myself that experience made me very wary and I fell into a brief period of buying into stereotypes as bi guys as cheaters and unsafe. On my third or fourth date with my husband I related that story to him ending with "and that's why I'll never date a bi guy again!" (much to my shame now).

And he responded with "Well, there's something I should tell you..."

Honestly the stigma against bi guys is so huge, and I'm so ashamed for falling prey to it, even if it was 10 years ago, but his honestly and self-acceptance was super bad-ass in that scenario. He liked me a lot and knew he could very well lose me by being out to me but he chose to do it anyway.

Anyway, I felt like an ass right away, got over my biphobia, bi guys are the best, date all of them. Male sexuality is as "fluid" as female sexuality, but the stigma is so much worse for bi men versus bi women.