No, “he’s just being friendly “ means I think he’s just being friendly. I’m not in the top 10% of attractive women and I’m thicker; most guys aren’t flirting with me so if there is one flirting, I genuinely can’t tell until it’s real obvious. Maybe. Example: I and a soon-to-be former co-worker have spent months flirting and eyeing each other. Last weekend, I asked him for drinks, he very enthusiastically accepted then explained that his schedule was changing the following day to overnights (12+ hour shifts) so he would “definitely, absolutely” txt me some availability. That was 6 days ago so I’m assuming that I just read that whole thing wrong and he was just being friendly, not flirting? Fuck. I don’t know.