Lol a man’s decision to cheat or watch porn has nothing to do with me. When a man is faced with temptation in a good relationship, it is up to him to reject it. Plus that was at a time watching porn was accepted as normal (as it still is now) so neither of us realized its insidious effects until it impacted us in the bedroom.

And what did I do? I left. Because as perfect as I am (sarcasm) we had other issues in the relationship as well so I chose to go on an exclusive break so we could both determine if continuing the relationship was important. We spent months kind of unhappy so it was a good time to figure things out. I also wanted to give him space to realize he didn’t want to be with me anymore, as that’s what I was feeling through his actions.

It was then he went porn free and realized a huge change.

Guess what, you can do everything right and still have ups and downs in a relationship. No ones perfect, even though you implied I am and I’m flattered, that doesn’t mean relationships will be perfect. He gave up porn and our relationship skyrocketed. The passion was reignited! Thanks for your concern! Good luck out there. Your frustration is nothing but projection I hope you take care of. Nothing but well wishes for you!