17 years old, we met on Nexopia. We chatted, he seemed genuinely nice. Our first date was him inviting me to his house and then go for a coffee and walk. He brings me into his home and his Mom asks if he can take out the garbage and the guy literally threw a fit. I have no money, no debit card, this is such bullshit! She finally said enough, I’ll give you 40$ if you take the garbage out. Meanwhile I was stunned. I even spoke up and said bud, chill, just take out the garbage and have some respect. (My home, we didn’t get paid to pull our weight around the house, chores/rewards was unheard of)Anyway, he does it grabs money and while we are waiting on coffee he brags how he has 5gs saved for a sleeve tattoo and he’s getting it soon. Really? Didn’t you just cry that you don’t have money?
That was a very telling sign. A couple weeks later I was annoyed of the stories he’d tell. Too many girls calling him and messaging him on msn. I didn’t care. I wasn’t into it but he couldn’t let it go. I ended it and he talked me into meeting him to give me back some high school binders or some bs. (Not necessary didn’t care) Anyway he managed to talk me into dating again, before I knew it I was just annoyed and fed up with him so again we broke up again. This time he shows up on my step with flowers full on bawling. My parents felt horrible for the guy and made me chat with him. He kept telling me to ignore the other girls and their jealousy. Let me remind you this is now 7 months in of off and on. Welp. 2 weeks after he showed up on my doorstep I was pregnant.(yeah young and dumb)
Anyway, to make this shorter my dumbass knew he was an entitled selfish prick from literally day one. However I ended up pregnant and then married him at 17. SEVENTEEN. I barely liked the guy but he acted like I was THE ONLY thing he needed. - yeah because I didn’t want him. - anyway, had our baby boy he was never around and found every excuse to be away. Whatever. What ended it all is I knew the entiiiiiiire time he was a cheater. 17- pregnant- “bachelor” party- he never came home. But even dating, so many girls would message me. I KNEW it. I left him when he accidentally left another girls purse and wallet in our car. I wasn’t torn up or hurt. I was relieved and happily filed divorce papers and I did pay for it all.