In my opinion, you shouldn't "simp" initially. But once you get to know the person and they know you, you can praise her a little bit more, of course, you don't wanna go too far and you should have a healthy relationship where both sides are equal in the relationship so the guy doesn't praise the girl too much but you've gotta do a little bit of being attentive and loving towards the girl you're interested in, some may view it as simping but I'd only say that if the guy is overly desperate (sucka) or the girl isn't good for a relationship with you (mediocre pussy).

Seems like nobody knows what simp actually means and it's been changed from its true meaning in my opinion. It stands for Sucka Idolizing Mediocre Pussy. AKA don't idolize women or just go after them because they have a vagina.

My original comment was a joke but I thought I'd share what I think because you're pretty quick to judgment