I get you. I understand the concepts and the theory of sex positivity and the pros. Let women sleep around with as many men as they want and they might even end up sleeping with you! But again, much like Communism and Anarcho-Capitalism, it's one of those ideas that makes sense on paper, but in reality, it doesn't take into account human nature because it assumes that humans always want to be good and selfless people, or in the case of sex positivity and liberation, that everyone is beautiful in someone else's eyes and there is someone for everyone. When in reality, it's obvious that when given the choice between having sex with someone you find extremely physically attractive and someone who ticks off all of your boxes for the ideal mate except for being physically hot, you always go for Chad/Stacy because when it comes to casual sex, all you want is to fuck the person your gonads tell you is the most physically appealing to you. Everyone else is long term relationship material only. So basically, casual sex is for the beautiful people only and the socially adjusted.